February 2010 Archive
Who is in control of how your life is working out? Who is responsible? Well I guess you don’t need me to tell you that is YOU. But do you exercise your free will freely or are you at the effect of others around you? It is very rare for an individual to always live his or her life at cause, where they accept full personal responsibility for everything that happens in their life. Nevertheless far too many of us live a large portion of our lives at effect – responding to the requests, outlooks, desires or emotional states of others.
By being at cause you allow yourself to be the decision maker therefore creating what you want in life and taking responsibility for what you have achieved or will achieve based upon your present actions. See the world as a place of opportunity and move towards what you desire, this is a great starting point and if things are not unfolding as you would like, take action and explore other possibilities, draw upon your available resources and above all, remind yourself that you have the choice in what you do and how you react to people and events. Continue Reading »